Lesson 6

Well, this is the last video, the last lesson of this training. So thank you very much for being watching this and I just want to say something because before I will finish up here, I just want to tell you a story about me and my life because I'm working on a book. I have a dream about writing a book about living your dream. Yeah. It's cool.

Because I'm that kind of guy who was I have just always done whatever I wanted life and I've created, like, the biggest Danish street basket association. I I created the association for adventure racing sport. And then my I have been traveling the world, and I have been I started a local TV station in Denmark. And well, I've done a lot of things because live is changing. And when I was young, I was playing basketball, and then I was doing it winter racing, and then I was I always wanted to create videos and stuff like that.

So I started to work for a local TV station. And when that closed, I started my own local TV station. And some people, they've been asking me else? When are you going to have a real job? A real job.

Wow. That's good. Like a job, like everyone else. Back. Right?

Cool. That's not for me. Sorry. It isn't for me. I don't like that.

I just want to follow my dreams and maybe in 5 years, I will do something else because I want to do something else in 5 years. And life is changing, my mind is changing, and then I will do something else. And maybe you feel the same way. Okay. So I'm writing this book about why people they are not doing what they actually want to do and why they just, you know, stay in this bubble with a normal job and do whatever they 1.

And then I will try to put in some tools in this book ideas about how to work with your dream. This is just a small part of it. I hope this works for you. And if you like to know more, I have a link under this video where you can sign up. And the book is going to be in Danish.

But if you want me to translate it to English, then sign up for the English book because if I can get like 10000 sign ups, then I know that you guys would like to hear about this in English and then I will use time and money on this to create a English version. But if you are Danish and you don't like me when I'm speaking English, then you can sign up for my Danish book as well in the link below. But I just want to say writing a book is not in my nature. When I was when I was a kid, a child in school, and I was really bad in school. And I had this teacher, she was really mean at me.

And 1 day, I didn't do my homework. Well, that was not the first time I didn't do it. I didn't do a lot of homework, and that was bad. I know that. But I had this teacher and she was really not motivating me.

Actually, was doing their visit. And then 1 day, we had to go and give our homework to her desk. But We had to stand up, walk to her desk, put the homework there, and she was just sitting there waiting for us to come up there, and I was like, room, what year is this? Time. I'm not that old, but she was doing that.

And I came there and I was like, I haven't done my homework. And she was like, well, That was what I expected. Please then next to my desk, the table. And I did that. And then a friend saved the same, and he was totally my like me.

Well, he was my best friend. So and he was standing on the other side of the desk, the table. And she was sitting there and everyone have just hand over the homework and she was happy and then we're standing there looking at our classmates. And then she was saying, well class Those guys, they never do any homework. So what kind of work?

What kind of job will they have when they grew up and get older. Well, 1 of my friends, he was really nice because he was like, Yeah. I think that mills he will be an officer in the Danish navy because my father was in the navy navy and at that time I had an idea that I was going to be in the navy as my father and his father. And she was like, no. No.

No. No. No. Nils can never go to the Danish navy because he's not doing his homework. So he can be the garbage man.

Well, if someone in that classroom had a father who was working on mother working with garbage, well, she was not feeling heavy. Right? And then the class starting to say funny things about me and my friend, like, can work with this and that and they were laughing and laughing and we're standing there next to her. And the class was laughing. This was provoked by her.

I hated her. So much. I can tell you. And I didn't like school. And then after a few years, we got a new teacher.

And he was hard teacher, but fair. And he inspired me so much to live my dreams, so and do whatever I wand in life. Like, the first time he asked me to do homework when all of them all my classmates, they left the room. He just took me and he say, mills. I know that you haven't done a lot of homework.

So I will just take the paper. He took the paper with the the the homework thing on, and he say, go home and write something about whatever you like in life. Don't write what the others are going to write about. You just write something that you really like, something that you dream of. You're like, what is your dream?

Go write something. At that time, I was a scout, a boy scout, and I really love to be a boy scout. I still love to be a scout and help scouts. I actually I'm a in Denmark, we call it a gold scout in in America, you call WoodBet Skout. And I'm I'm going to teach as Skout leaders how to become better leaders and and better leaders in their own lives.

So that's cool. That's another dream that I'm living. But he asked me to write something I like and I wrote about the the scout movement and and that was so cool. I really like that. And then I enjoyed to write down things as I started to enjoy being in school.

So It's not very It's not in my genes to write a book. What the hell this book I promise that I will go visit my old teacher with this book and give it to her because she deserve that. Because she didn't get so much homework for me, so I'm still behind. So maybe this book can can can make up for what I didn't do at school. So and in my book, there will be a story about me, forgiving my teacher, about what you did because forgiving, like, letting let let go of things like that.

I'm not doing it for her. I'm doing it for me. Let go. Look. Forgive people.

Don't spend your energy and time on hating people. It's not going to work for you. Okay. Cool. I'm going to write this book and you can sign up below if you want to hear more about this 1.

So now you have created everything like you know about fear and you know that you're not doing things because of fear in your head is amygdala and your brain telling you, oh, don't do this. Don't do this panic panic panic. And when you see television with the COVID 19, panic panic fear fear fear, but you can cope with fear. You can deal with it. And you know, if if you really want to live your dream, if you want to do your online business, put things on paper, make a plan, write down, what is a worth thing that can happen and then do whatever you have done on your paper and then follow it and take the paper.

Look at it sometimes to say, oh, what have I've been writing here and so you can remember it. Right? Don't put the paper away after this and then forget about it and put it up on the wall so you can see it and it will remember you about, you can do this. This is my dream, and I want to do it. Okay.

So a dream without a plan is just an illusion. So that's why you need to grab your pin and make a plan. Okay? You can also choose to be on your couch and continue dreaming about your dream. Because that's another way to dream a dream.

I want you to live out your dream and not dream about your dream. That sounds very dangerous, but I think you understand what I mean. Right? Because some people just stay on the couch and then they think, well, 1 day 1 day Gandalf, he will enter this room and he will put me on a quest for the next big adventure and I will be a hero and people will love me and follow me on Twitter and Facebook, Instagram, everything. That will be great.

Yeah. Sorry to say. Can and off doesn't exist. Everything is up to you. You have to do something.

You have to be proactive and you have to do things. Now you have a plan. Right? At least you have been writing something down on a paper. Now you need to create a plan.

Right? I have this dream. How am I going to do this? Create a plan. Yeah.

It is. But what if the plan is not good enough? Well, if your plan isn't good enough, change your strategy and approach and do it again. Okay? So create your plan.

And if it doesn't work, change it. Do it again. Continue. Yeah. And if that doesn't work, change it, and try again.

Okay. And if that doesn't work, you change it and you try again and you do it until it works for you. Okay? New plane. Does it work?

No. Change it new plan. Does it work? No. Or you can Does it work?

No. I'm sad. I'm smooth. I went to be on the couch and eat, charge clip because that gives me some kind of feeling that I'm feeling good and happy. Yeah.

But that's not your dream. If you want to follow your dream, write down on a paper, make a plan, and things will be great. Okay. I hope that you liked this video training this course here in San Diego. And I hope that you are inspired to, like, just follow your dream and just do things.

I hope that you can understand that things doesn't need to be that perfect effects? You should actually not dress in an old hoodie like this. Does it matter to have this on the wall while you, it's okay, but if you can put a plan or something because people when they watch this movie, they're not watching me all the time because then they're thinking about this 1. Now I've been talking about it, so that's why it's okay. It's there.

Right? So so, like, think about what you're doing and things doesn't need to be perfect all the time. You are who you are and you need to be authentic. You need to show me who you are because if you're trying to show someone else, you're not authentic. And I will never trust you.

And people where people are buying from people. So I need to understand who you are. I need to feel you. I need to understand you. Who are you?

And if you put your face on your product and your service, I will trust you. It depends what you're saying. You need to say something great and you need to be honest and you need to relax in front of the camera and you need to make me feel that you're a nice guy, nice girl, nice someone and then then I will buy from you because most people, they they build I think it's 5 percent of people who is buying because of facts. And then, I think, I don't know, 35 percent is buying on the setup this video and this membership side, how it works. So, of course, it needs to be nice not perfect, but nice.

And and then the last part, and I think it's 50 percent actually more it must be. Right? So they're actually buying because of you who you are. Okay? So when you're creating an online product and then be authentic, be yourself, love it like you're doing this because you love it and you don't care about what others are thinking about this.

You do it because you want to do it. Okay? Because if you don't really want to do this, if this is not your dream, if you follow your files a dream or your friends dream, and you're creating this video and this platform, or this course training, we can feel it. This is not real. Why are you doing this?

And then we will not buy from you. Okay? Oh, that's another fear. They will think that about me. Yeah.

Maybe if you're not authentic and if you don't like what you're doing, or love whatever you're doing. Do a business that that you like and that you love. Okay? Then everything will be okay. So if you want to follow me in Danish, I can I there will be another link to my Facebook page It's it's for a channel I call gtalks?

And gtalks is my online interviews with people, like just a book and actually, I interviewed a homeless guy about history. And you can if you understand Danish you can see all of them on detox and please go and follow and I will be very happy. So cool to see you here in the same place and I hope that I can help you 1 day and see you out there. Good luck with your dream. And as I I say in Danish klimus klimus, this school will lose.

And that means that you shouldn't dream your but you should live your dream. Okay? Thank you. See you out there. Bye.

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